Teaching Kids to Pray: The ACTS Prayer Model
Prayer is a powerful way for kids to build a relationship with God, but sometimes they don’t know where to start. The ACTS prayer model is a simple and effective way to teach children how to pray with structure and meaning. It breaks prayer into four easy-to-follow parts:
A – Adoration (Praise)
C – Confession (Saying Sorry)
T – Thanksgiving (Gratitude)
S – Supplication (Asking for Help)
Let’s explore each step in a way kids can understand!
Adoration – Praising God
Adoration means telling God how great He is! Kids can say things like:
"God, You are amazing!"
"I love You because You are always with me."
"You created the whole world, and that is awesome!"
Encourage children to start their prayers by focusing on who God is rather than jumping straight to requests.
2. Confession – Saying Sorry
This is when we tell God about our mistakes and ask for forgiveness. Kids can pray:
"I’m sorry for being mean to my friend today."
"Please forgive me for not listening to my parents."
"Help me to do better tomorrow."
Teaching kids to confess helps them understand that God forgives and loves them no matter what.
3. Thanksgiving – Saying Thank You
This part helps kids develop gratitude. They can say:
"Thank You for my family and friends."
"Thank You for food, my home, and all the blessings in my life."
"I’m grateful for the sunshine and a fun day at school!"
Focusing on thankfulness reminds kids of God’s goodness.
4. Supplication – Asking for Help
Now, they can ask God for help for themselves and others:
"Please help my friend who is sick."
"Help me be kind and patient."
"Bless my parents and teachers."
This teaches kids to bring their needs to God while also praying for others.
Making It Fun!
Use a prayer journal for kids to write or draw their ACTS prayers.
Turn it into a family prayer time, with each person taking a turn.
Use hand motions to help younger kids remember the four parts.
By using the ACTS model, kids can develop a strong and balanced prayer life that helps them grow in faith.
Does your child already pray? Try the ACTS model and let me know how it goes!
